Is Reproof Really Necessary

Is Reproof Really Necessary?

2 Timothy 3:16 states "All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof..."

Reproof must be a very important aspect of ministry for the Apostle Paul to have instructed his disciple Timothy that all Scripture is profitable for reproof.  Keep in mind that Timothy was most likely a timid individual by nature and as such would have had a natural dislike for reproof.  However, because of its value and necessity he would have learned how to use this skill effectively. 

When the word reproof or rebuke is used what is the first thing that enters your mind?  If it is an argument or very confrontational picture you are not alone.  For most of us reproof is a most unpleasant experience.  However, if we want to grow as Christian's and truly operate with the love of Christ then reproof is a necessary element.  However, we must keep in mind that reproof is two sided.  We need to be able to receive it graciously and to give it lovingly. 

Reproof is one of the key things that God has given us as a means of plowing up the follow ground of our hearts.  It is also this same tool that is used to break through the defenses of the soul so that our hearts don't become hardened and quench or grieve the Holy Spirit.  As uncomfortable as many are with reproof we must realize that it is one of the most loving acts we can perform.  In fact if we are unwilling to reprove and correct it is doubtful that our love and concern is really for the other person.  It is much more likely that our concern is for ourselves.

In last month's article I summarized part of a new class being taught and shared that we must be teachable in five different areas of our lives.  As the class moved into the second element we discovered that there are three categories of reproof and that within these categories there are subtle nuances.  All of these are important if we want to be skilled at giving and receiving reproof and loving our neighbor.  The main categories of reproof are 1.  To convict or show a wrong.  2.  To reprove rebuke or admonish.  3.  To expose or make manifest.

Each of the above categories of reproof can be understood and practiced in a very harsh cold method or in a very gentle loving manner.  Throughout the Gospels we can see Jesus using these different methods of reproof to bring people to a place of receiving correction and training in righteousness.  With some close observation we can also see that majority of times when Jesus used these different methods He was very loving about it.  His interest was for us not for Himself.  In other words, Jesus was compelled by His love for us rather than fearing what He would suffer for reproving us. 

In addition to the loving nature of reproof, when given correctly that is, we must also realize that reproof is a command (2 Tim. 4:1-4, Tit. 1:9-13), a necessary step in the learning process (Prov. 6:23; 9:7-9; 15:31-32) and reproof is a key element in the authority and power of the Church (Matt. 18:15-20).  There are also clear benefits to receiving reproof and there are clear consequences to rejecting it.

The next time there is a situation, that deep down you know needs to be addressed, pray and ask the Father to give you the strength, wisdom, love and courage to address it.  Remember that the overall goal of reproof is restoration and healing.  Many times we sweep things under the rug with the justification that God will take care of it when the reality may be that God wants to use us in the healing process.  If we start practicing correctly giving godly reproof it will also make us a little more gracious when someone else is trying and we are on the receiving end.

Blessings in Christ,

Rev. David M. Smuin

Pastor / Director

Faith Counseling and Training

www.faithcounseling.org